Thank you for posting this. I wasn't sure about the courtship montage: while it is stereotyping, it's also pretty obvious that they're a well-matched couple, and I personally like women who are into stereotypically "male" stuff. So, the fact that you hated it is useful data. And thank you for the rest, which was very informative. I'm sorry you feel so apologetic - good luck with fixing that, and good luck with the lower surgery when you have it.