"Gender theory" - the answer

OK, it looks like the gender theory quotation thread has reached the end of its life-cycle, so it's time to reveal the answer. Yes, that's right: I knew where the quotation came from all along, and was using it... not really to test you, but to test the author's assumptions. I'm sorry if any of you feel betrayed by this - if it helps, I think you all passed :-)

Anyway, ( Spoilers ho! )